How to tell my mom I'm not a virgin?!

There is such a thing as doctor-patient privilege, which means (in some states) that conversations, and sometimes even procedures like abortions may be illegal for a physician to inform a parent about without express consent by the child/minor.

It will probably be the case where your mother won't even be in the exam room with you, but if you are nervous, you can make a note on the paperwork you will definitely be given that you have some "private questions." If you are very nervous now, and know the doctor's name, you can try to contact him/her beforehand. Doctors aren't stupid, they have been teenagers with concerned parents before, too.

Honestly, I know it its good to be truthful with parents in order to maintain a healthy relationship with mutual trust, but it should be on your own terms. You should have a conversation with her when you are really ready, not just in preparation for an awkward moment.
Here's more information about doctor-patient confidentiality when it comes to minors: http://www.enotes.com/everyday-law-encyc…

Good luck!

Been there!

Don't tell her. when you are in the doctors office tell them; and if your mom goes nuts just tell her you have been sexually active with your boyfriend a few times and you have used protection all times you have had sex(don't tell her you've had sex with him a lot). If she asks what is wrong with her tell her you love each other, and if you have been dating for awhile tell her it was heat of the moment, and that you were mentally ready for it. good luck, hope she doesn't have a cow. :)

Well tell her your embarrassed and don't want her in the room with you. Also you should just tell her, just say mom I want the birth control for my period but also because I'm having sex. Just tell her you wanted her to know, that you don't like to lie or keep secrets from her. Best of luck.

Sit her down and tell her in which ever way you'd find easiest. I'm 22 and I never told my mum I'm not, but having been with my guy for two and a half years, I think she'll have guessed... Just be gentle with her, tell her you'd rather she knows now, than everybody getting tense and angry in the doctors, and that you don't want any surprises. If you don't want her in the room, tell her that it's more personal than you're willing to share with her. She can't always go with you

Tell her u feel uncomfortable with her in the room with you. Ask her to please understand. And if u really think u should tell her. Tell her that u only did it ONCE. And that u will never again. Say it was a mistake and sound really sincere and sad and upset about it. if u can fake cry that would keep her from yelling. And tell her your sorry and pretend you "understand why she would be upset" this should keep her anger low.

You need to make sure she's not angry/upset/scared first. Find a time when you know she's not freaking out...even though she probably would after you tell her the news. You should start off with telling her how you were seeing this one guy, and how you got in the moment and that you had sex. It helps if you rehearse it over first.

The best thing to do is to try to explain to her before hand that you feel grown up enough and would like to try to see the doctor alone. Tell her that if you have any questions while in there you can have the doctor summon her from the waiting room.

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The doctor won't ask you that, he will ask you if you're sexually active. Or he won't even ask at all lol, mine didn't. You can lie and say it's for acne, cause there's a birthcontrol that helps acne too.

Just say that you are old enough to go into the doctor's office room by yourself. Tell her it's a private or personal topic and don't want her in there with you. Good luck!

Tell your mom you'd rather her stay in the waiting room for the pelvic exam. Your first pap is awkward enough, you don't need an audience.

Im not a virgin I had sex when I was 9.
But now im 12 and my mom doesn't know I'm not a virgin and I'm not gonna tell her..Only my sisters know.

" I dishonored our family and ask for forgiveness".

The you kneel down and bow your head!

If you're mother is lenient, then she will not demand you commit seppuku to save face.

You'll want to tell her ahead of time. As for how to do it, that's up to you based on your situation. She's going to ask you lots of questions: "Are you being safe? Do I know the guy? How old is he? How many times?" If it's going to be weird maybe you can try to talk to the doctor in private before-hand.

First, do not listen to the nincompoop advice of fear mongers. Remember, honesty is always the best policy unless your in trouble with the law and in that case admit nothing and demand your miranda rights. Second, ask your mom if she knows how much you love her. Her answer of course will be that she does. Third, ask her if she loves you. Again she will say that of course she does. Then tell her that you've made a mistake and that you don't want her to be angry with you, but that you feel she needs to know what that mistake was and is. And then come out with it in the simplest terms. Then listen to her wise counsel, because for sure you are far to young to begin to have children. No contraceptive is 100% full proof in part because we are human beings who tend to forget from time to time. All it takes is for you to take the pill once and in nine months you'll be naming your baby unless you'll choose to kill him or her and hide the fact under the false term: a womans right to choose. Tell it like it is in fact, that is the right to choose whether the child is given life or death. A right that does not belong to anyone else but to the Author of creation who is God and to whom we all shall one day have to give an answer for the choice we made. This is a fact that no matter whether we believe in God or not we will face some day. Just because I choose not to believe in what I can not see, such as oxygen or radon does not mean that my denial will cause such a thing to cease to exist. Neither will the denial of the atheist cause God to cease to exist. And there is the crux of your decision, sex out of marrige is something divine revelation states we will be called upon to answer same as a lie. So again, you beautiful child of God, honesty is the best policy especially with our parents. It fulfills the commandment: "honor thy mother and father", while a lie dishonors them

Common sense and revealed truth