Very low Sex drive , or no sex drive problem?!
Question:
Very low Sex drive , or no sex drive problem?
hello, I am a 26 year old married male who been married to my wonderful wife for almost one year now , the problem is that before marriage we both had this huge sex drive and we both couldnt get enough of each other , but with no penetration as we both wanted to wait till after the marriage , then after the marriage she began on birth pills but somehow her drive went from low to lower till its now , around 6 month now with no sex or oral intercourse whatso ever , she quited the pill lie 5 month ago , but still there is no improvment , i tried everything from candles to romance mood , to massages , i was wondering if the pill could affect her libido even after she stopped , and if so is there a way to regain it with out medical supplemnts, and if it really needed supplements , will we have to go on those supplements for ever or isit for a short period, pls help any one
Answers:
In the long run I think you would need some talks either with a marriage counselor or a sex therapist, I am not sure if this is included in your insurance or not, but it might prove to be the only solution. Someone needs to open this subject and hear both sides and then decide on the best way to help you.
Supplements (herbal) do not really help. I know that for menopausal women a pill containing testosterone is making a huge difference in the sexual drive of these women but am not sure if this treatment is given to younger women too. You do need to consult a gynecologist about that.
Good luck.