Boyfriend won't go to doctors/family planning with me - am I just making a fuss?!
Question:
Boyfriend won't go to doctors/family planning with me - am I just making a fuss?
I've managed to get him to agree to give me a lift there and back, but he NEVER comes with me! I don't know if i'm just being fussy - after all, it's only a half/three quaters of an hour appointment to grab condoms/a repeat prescription of the pill, but we always use more condoms than they give us (and could get more if he would just register) and I think going as a couple shows an altogether more responsible attitude to sex. But I don't know if i'm just being silly - what do you lot think?
Answers:
I don't think you are being silly. If you want him to go then he should go with you, after all, it is something that both of you participate in.
I wouldn't worry about what the doctor/family planning think but I would be worried about his lack of support for me and his reluctance to accept his share of the responsibility.
Congratulations to you on behaving responsibly!!